“Why are you on your phone – again?” my younger son asked with an edge of whine in his voice from the bathtub.
I felt a pang of guilt. I should be paying attention to him – right? My undivided, unquestioned attention.
But wait. I had given him a ton of attention earlier that day. We had played a board gamebefore dinner. I had just played a game of 20 Questions with him focusing on Dungeons and Dragons monsters while he was in the bath. No, I shouldn’t feel guilty. I needed that break.
“Because my brain needs a break. I find being a good listener takes a lot of energy. Reading gives my brain a rest. So I’m just reading on my phone for a little while,” I responded.
He grumbled and started telling me something anyway, but at least I tried.
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