The heart of kindness is empathy. As Brene Brown says in this great video, empathy is being with someone, not having pity or trying to give advice. One of the best ways to develop empathy is to see things from another person’s point of view.
While in-person conversations and real relationships are the best way to do this, books can also play an important role. Reading about people who have radically different experiences than me has opened my eyes to so many perspectives.
Fortunately, children’s literature offers a wide variety of experiences if only you look for them. Obviously, which characters will be different from you will depend on your own situation!
But here are a few ideas for great picture books featuring children from a variety of backgrounds and experiences:
- If you live in the suburbs or a rural area: One Hot Summer Day; Last Stop on Market Street; A Pocket for Corduroy
- If you live in the suburbs or city: One Morning in Maine; The Chicken-Chasing Queen of Lamar County
- If you are middle or upper-class: Sally Jean, Bicycle Queen; A Chair for My Mother; Ada’s Violin: The Story of the Recycled Orchestra of Paraguay
- If your family aren’t immigrants or don’t have close relatives who are immigrants: Suki’s Kimono; Mango, Abuela & Me
- If you’re white: Big Hair, Don’t Care; All the Colors We Are
- If your family has both parents: Two Homes; The Big Bag of Worries
- If you have boys: Drum Dream Girl: How One Girl’s Courage Changed Music
- If everyone in your family is able-bodied and neurotypical: Mama Zooms, Black Book of Colors, Benny Doesn’t Like to be Hugged; My Three Best Friends and Me, Zulay
- If everyone in your family is non-LGBT and gender normative: This Day in June; 10,000 Dresses; One of a Kind Like Me; Best Best Colors
Unfortunately, my knowledge of current chapter books is pretty limited right now! A librarian in the children’s section of your local library can be an invaluable resource though.